Leaving By The Backdoor
Is it ok my girlfriend has me use backdoor to avoid her nosey neighbors?
Is it ok with you? Whenever you must use the backdoor to leave from your
relationship process there is something imbalanced right from the start.
No solid relationship should be built on those grounds.
Why is the opinion of the neighbors more important than your position and
importance in this relationship? Neighbors do not live your life, you do.
It is vital that your relationship be founded on trust, admiration and pride
in who you are and the quality of your companionship.
Sneaking out the backdoor doesn't sound like those qualities to me.
Perhaps you need to sit down and discuss the foundation and importance
of your relationship and leave the neighbors to their own devices.
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